by KYW's Nan Talleno
Like people, dogs need to know that they are loved and praise is extremely important to them. It’s also an extremely important part of their training. They quickly learn the new appropriate behavior from the positive reinforcement and the praise that they receive.
But for your dog’s well being, it’s just as important to know when not to nurture. This can save a dog from an unhealthy and imbalanced life. These times include whenever a dog is in a fearful, anxious or stressful state, (for example, if your dog whines during a thunderstorm, or exhibits signs of stress going to the vet’s office, etc) It’s not that you don’t still love your dog, of course you do, it’s just that you shouldn’t show signs of nurturing at that moment, whether it’s verbal (for example, by saying ”it’s okay”) or physical (petting, stroking fur, etc) when the dog is in a stressful, negative state. This only serves to confuse your dog and thus reinforces his/her anxious state of mind. Consequently, the fearful, anxious or stressful behavior will, in turn, become a negative behavioral pattern for your dog.
Instead, help your dog, by correcting those states BEFORE they occur and escalate (Remember that in more severe cases of fear, stress or anxiety, it is advisable to seek the aid of a professional) by changing the dog’s focus and redirecting his/her attention, (using treats if need be) then lavishing the praise and affection as you guide the dog to a new and more appropriate behavior. Ultimately, this creates a healthier and more balanced state of mind for your dog.
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